You Allow The Love You Attract…
Why do we believe that we are only worthy of the love we are currently receiving?
The truth is, we attract the type of person who is a reflection on the way we are feeling about ourselves.
We allow things to happen in a relationship, such as emotional and physical abuse, because we allow ourselves to believe that we are not deserving of any other kind of love.
We promise ourselves to not listen to their horrible words, yet our insecurities get the better of us.
We make up excuses for these people because we are afraid. We forgive them because we want to believe they will change. We allow them to dampen our spirits. In fact we lower our own standards, because they make us feel like we are not good enough.
I have always promised myself that as soon as someone abused me physically or emotionally I would leave. However at times these people fall through the cracks and we allow it. We allow it because we accept the love we think we deserve.
Now, I am not saying this is our fault. Because the way someone treats you is a clear reflection of themselves. Horrible people bring you down to their level, so that you feel the pain they do. However the change you can make is to not allow them to hurt you.
So the next time you allow someone to manipulate you. Someone to lay a finger on you. Someone to call you a horrible name…
Remember this is not ok. This is not the love you deserve. You deserve more. You deserve someone who lifts your spirits higher. When you allow someone to mistreat you, you are condoning their behaviour. You are indicating that it is ok for them to hurt you.
Walk away. Free yourself. Because you are so much more worthy then the love you are attracting right now.
After any negative relationship, give yourself time to heal. Give yourself time to realise you are worthy of so much more.